Rather than have a gradually deteriorating relationship, these somewhat needy people have roller coaster relationships with many emotional ups and downs.
For both the very needy and somewhat needy person, their fears of being rejected or being alone interfere with setting healthy boundaries that stabilize the relationship and promote equality.
At some point, we’ve all exhibited needy behaviors.
What’s worse, it can suddenly grip us from time to time in certain contexts, even if it’s not a constant characteristic, which is part of why feelings of neediness can be so scary, difficult and unpredictable to manage.
Not knowing what I’m about to share with you could lead to your erection going on life support.
Why No One Likes a Needy Man It’s probably no surprise that neediness is a major attraction killer.
They often feel like they have to "walk on eggshells" with their partners, which takes the joy out of the relationship.
People who are may have periods when they are very strong, even breaking up, but then quickly lose their resolve.
It can destroy romantic relationships, compromise professional opportunities, and contribute to a cycle of frustration, depression, and dissatisfaction. It can show up as desperation, nagging, and self-centeredness, or bundled with other mundane qualities like talkiness, clinginess or perfectionism.
Whatever the particular manifestation, every single guy knows what it feels like to be needy.