Women love playing hard to get, and they usually play hard to get even if they like the guy. Playing hard to get Guys may get frustrated when they have to put up with girls who play hard to get, but they too, would accept that they like it when girls play hard to get. [Read: What men like in women more than anything else] How to play hard to get with a guy We’ve seen it happen several times, in movies, amongst friends and in several other places full of frenzied dating activities.Dear Geoff, Glad to hear you found someone special, and even happier that you spoke up.Most of the people that write about online dating write about what’s wrong with it. I mean, that’s what news is – emphasize the bad, misery loves company, etc.Turn on the TV and it’s not about kittens being saved from trees, but drive-by shootings.That doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of kittens saved from trees.Everyone is drinking, peering into their screens and swiping on the faces of strangers they may have sex with later that evening. “Ew, this guy has Dad bod,” a young woman says of a potential match, swiping left.
The tables are filled with young women and men who’ve been chasing money and deals on Wall Street all day, and now they’re out looking for hookups.Along with the happy feeling of wooing this woman, a man also gets an ego boost.It was him that she chose after all that playing hard to get, and not anyone else, so what does this make him in her eyes, an alpha male of sorts.Friends of both genders tell that their experiences have been hard in different ways.My guy friends (also educated, attractive) complain that they get no responses and female acquaintences tell me that they get so many emails, etc, that they don’t know where to start-and often do nothing.